Confession to Dad! #Fathersday

 Dear Dad,

Every daughter says my dad is superhero, but I don't wanna say that because in real I have never seen any Super hero. But I consider you has my idol reason being I have learnt so many things from you.

How to earn and spend at same time, I have learnt from you. How to fulfill everyone's demand, compromising your own and not letting others know it I have seen in you and tried to adopt. Ensuring everyone lives healthy life and no one gets lesser than one deserve, is something I wanna learn from you. How to stay clear with your needs and desire is what you have taught me, Dad. You were the one who made easy for me to select my career by not letting your decision be mine and accepting what I wanted to pursue.

Once I asked mom, " Why is dad so normal even after working for 12 hours a day? I get tired in 7 hours of Internship, Mumma!". Her answer made me  emotionally fragile, "You work to just achieve your own goals, while he works so that you and your brother both can reach till your destination with ease." That day I cannot stop thinking about you. I just wanted to come to you and hug you tight and say A BIG THANK YOU for working on my dream secretly. Till now I have been thanking Mumma for small gestures she has been doing for me, but I never came and appreciated you for even small thing and am sorry for that dad.

I have never taken you for granted but I have not even given you as much importance as I should have given until I got my partner in life. The special treatment which I got from him, I already got such importance from you since 25 years, but I didn't realized till then. But I feel sad, that today when I realized your significance , I have to leave you and settle with such person who has been knowing me  for short time. But I know if you are handing me over to such guy, then he is the guy with whom I'll be myself. 

Dad, I assure you today, every lesson which you taught me in life I will stand over it and never let you down. I still remember you told me "Whatever the phase you might be in, but never let your relationship with your dear ones get it down, because relations are permanent, phases are not."

Though its not enough for what I have because of you, but still as small appreciation I wanna Thank you for everything. I pray god, you live longest and healthiest life ever.

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